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Anonymous Dude's avatar

The bit about the Sacred Stag in the header pic made me think of the use of things like tarot cards, which are heavily symbolic and may be a way of people tapping into their subconscious. Like, you could be subconsciously realizing you need to quit drinking and then you'll be more likely to interpret a Temperance card that comes up in that fashion, but also the Death card (which is supposed to technically represent change) might be read as a change of lifestyle, Justice meaning 'face the music and quit drinking', etc.

They're also often beautifully illustrated, which can help put one in a contemplative mood.

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Credens Justitiam's avatar

> How to start enjoying the company of people you don’t like

I think this is very often a very bad idea! My own dislike of people is an important signal for how I should act towards that person. There have been a bunch of occasions on which I disliked someone irrationally, and so I avoided interacting with them, which later resulted in me dodging a social bullet I might have been hit with had I artificially induced myself to like them and interact with them.

I would say in particular that artificially inducing liking someone is a bad idea if you're the sort of person to feel *guilty* for irrationally disliking people. Modifying your own emotional reactions because they make you feel guilty is a stereotypical mistake for a reason!! I used to feel guilty about disliking people, but eventually stopped when I realized that part of my psyche is actually incredibly well-calibrated.

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