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Sadly I don't necessarily find the accusations of sexual harassment all that surprising in EA circles. IMO the attitude that your circle is particularly virtuous in some related (too rational, too holy, too woke and aware) is a risk factor. Indeed, I think one of the worst things we do regarding sexual assault and harassment is to present it (as in Epstein) as something only someone truly awful would do and thereby make it that much harder for anyone to even wonder if they or their friends might be doing it.

Having said that, I'd quibble about framing the problem in terms of our tools not being sufficient to handle predatory behavior. I mean it's only a quibble since most of what the piece says seems right and I certainly agree predatory behavior is a very hard problem. One of the things that makes it so very hard is that many 'solutions' can themselves be abused or even make things worse. For instance trying to bar relationships between TAs and students or boss and subordinate often give the predatory individual greater power (you promised to keep us a secret, I could lose my job). But framing it as our tools are inadequate presupposes we should expect them to be better. Is that right? Or is it a very hard problem and we should be surprised we are doing as well as we are?

Personally, I tend to think that the better frame is: given that sexual harassment and assault seem unfortunately common how can we help recognize and avoid doing or enabling that behavior rather than framing it as what tools do us good people need to stop those bad guys. Not to mention the risks that trying to create those tools will make things worse.

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To answer the tweet: because humans are evolved to find love stories particularly compelling. Other things being equal a love story is just going to be more interesting to most people and when you make it a competition you look for every advantage. Not to mention that it's much easier to communicate a love story within the limited range of ice skating.

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