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Kat's avatar

So so so pleased to be in the 5% that laughed.

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estera clare's avatar

That Marilyn Frye essay is excellent, and less inflammatory than I was worried it might be. I bet that lesbians find communicating about sex harder than heterosexuals because your friend group and dating group tend to overlap more. It's weird to talk about your sex life with your friends when that means you are telling them about another friend's sex life. I don't know the extent to which this is true for gay men, though. My impression is that they're a lot less likely to sleep with their friends.

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